Don’t call me baby!
This guy, we’ll call him Sugar Lips (see how he likes them apples!), has been calling me ‘baby’ since the very first day that I met him. Instant turnoff! He’s been leaving this epithet on my FB wall ( for all to see -_- ), in my inbox *shown above*, on my voicemail and anywhere else he can find. I can’t take it! Especially since I’ve NEVER gone out with this man! Never! Who does this!?
Pet names like ‘baby’, ‘sweet heart’, ‘big booty Judy’ (<–my personal favorite), lose meaning when used on STRANGERS. And I know that some guys use it to show their endearment. But how can you be endeared to someone that you just met. I mean, you could very well be endearing yourself to a blood sucking vampire. With all these nuclear tests and global warming, it’s definitely a possibility.
My advice to men : use these terms SPARINGLY.
A girl wants to know that she means something to a guy. If he’s tossing these words around all willy-nilly, their meaning becomes watered down, like an icy beverage left in the car too long. Just like no one wants to drink that mess, no one wants to hear a meaningless ‘baby’ or ‘babe’.
So just do me a favor and don’t call me baby!